This summer, I went to donate blood for the first time. In my mind, this was a way to get some free cookies while making sure I didn’t have AIDS—the donation part was a positive after effect. I half convinced myself I was ready to donate, though I made a few critical errors in my preparation.
It was another August day dubbed a ‘heat warning ‘ and I’d been at the beach all afternoon and did not stay adequately hydrated or nourished. So I walked into the donation clinic with my pink flamingo swim trunks and a sunburnt face to match. I went through the questionnaire, answering “no” to questions like, “Do you do cocaine or butt sex?” Though I’m sure they were more elegantly stated. I was given a sticker to wear that said, “Be nice to me, it’s my first time.” Like every dude before me, I thought about making the joke about wishing I had this sticker when I lost my virginity, but I decided against it as it was low-hanging fruit, and I’m better than that—sometimes.
I made it through the initial testing and got hooked up with an IV and a collection bag. The blood started to flow but the lady couldn’t quite figure out my pressure cuff so she called for backup. The two of them eventually got it figured out and gave me a stress ball to squeeze to help the blood flow. If that last sentence made you uneasy, then you’re like me. It was soon after squeezing this ball that my vision started to fade and my head got light.
“How are you doing?” the lady asked me.
“I’m feeling a little light-headed,” I said, which she knew right away meant, I’m going to pass out within ten seconds. I’m sure she’s heard that exact phrase countless time by sissy men trying to play it cool.
“We’re going to stop it right there,” she said.
She unhooked me and my arms began vibrating. She placed cold, damp towels on my forehead and behind my neck and flipped my chair back so my head was lower than my feet. I was given an apple juice and some bits and bites. In my purgatory state of consciousness, I caught a glimpse of two old ladies on chairs beside me, having a good ol’ laugh.
“So will we see you back again?” asked one of the old ladies as she turned toward her friend and laughed some more.
Before I could get a chance to respond she continued.
“This is my sixty-third time donating.”
Big fucking whoop, lady. You’re as old as the sun, I thought.
She continued, “It’s always the big, strong guys who come in acting tough who end up fainting.”
Ok, lady, let’s get it right. Number one, I didn’t faint. And number two, I’m not a big tough guy. But she wouldn’t stop talking.
“The wives come in with their husbands and the husband passes out and the wife is like, ‘I married a wuss!’” She looks at me again, “I’m not saying you’re a wuss…welllll.”
So after a few minutes, I took what was left of my pride to the break area, grabbed a couple of Oreos and hit the road. Some days you’re riding high, other days you’re being laughed at by old ladies. Life’s a motherfucker.
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